When do we know we have transformed from a doing person to a being person?

When we recognize the difference between wanting and needing a person, place or thing.
When we identify triggers not as annoyances but as growing opportunities.
When we respond not react to our surroundings.
When we stop seeking validation and self-accept.
When we are grateful for the things that are free – sunsets, sunrises, stars glowing, half moons and full moons.

And, so we will be transformed, Amen.